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By way of introduction, I’m a cancer survivor – three years and counting. When I was a little girl, the “C” word was whispered, and we all assumed that a death sentence had just been imposed. Thank goodness, this is no longer the case!
Oddly enough, even three years later, I still haven’t registered the fact that I had cancer. After all, there is no known history of cancer in my family. By and large, throughout my life I have eaten a nutritious diet, periodically exercised to the point that I lost pounds and inches, and, apart from the annual bout with a cold, led a relatively healthy life. Perhaps because of this background, my diagnosis didn’t have a devastating effect. I didn’t “fall apart” and didn’t bemoan my fate, but rather started an aggressive program of research -- and reaching out to both medical professionals and other cancer survivors.
Having said all this doesn’t mean I didn’t have my down moments. I needed lots of support, and was lucky enough to get it. I had medical professionals in my family, who helped confirm the wisdom of my own doctors, as well as pointing me to a variety of resources. Friends checked with their own favorite doctors. The Cancer Society was available to give comfort and advice 24-hours a day. My doctors at the Virginia Hospital Center were fantastic, not only in their medical expertise but in their personal care – willing to take my calls and make return calls way beyond office hours. The free classes offered through the hospital’s Cancer Resource Center helped me to understand and cope with the disease.
But, perhaps most important was my friend Susan, herself a cancer survivor, and my biggest cheerleader. She knew what I was going through as no one else could. She was in touch daily – by phone or email, and sent periodic cards and “goodies” to lift my spirits. Throughout treatment, there were many days that were extremely difficult to get through – but Susan was always there to prop me up.
I’m not home-free yet. Those of us who have gone through this experience know that five years equal the magic timeline. But, Susan showed me how important personal support can be. Since my diagnosis, three other friends have been diagnosed with cancer, and I have shared and continue to share my lessons-learned with them. One flew into town on her first anniversary, and we celebrated at an elegant restaurant. The latter two diagnoses are more recent. For these friends, I have ferreted out recent resources, touch base with them regularly, and have a “boatload” of cards that I pop into the mail periodically, because I remember how important those were to me. I can’t heal them, but I can help raise their spirits.
This is not altruism. It’s part of my own healing process. And, I know that I have a “band of sisters” out in the world doing exactly the same thing. I encourage you to share your strength with those who need it most. And, I encourage you to share that experience in this forum.
~Dina Dorich,
Cancer Survivor
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